Stop Performing For LOVE
Start Being It
You're the one everyone turns to. The giver. The supporter. The one who makes everything work—even when you don't want to.
You've figured out how to show up for everyone else. But when it comes to LOVE?
You're confused. Wondering why it's so hard. Lonely in partnership. Or tired of relationships that keep ending.
Not because you're broken. But because everything that makes you good at giving is the exact thing keeping you from receiving the kind of LOVE that makes you melt.
What if you could stop earning it and start receiving it - in 75 minutes?
Your LOVE Breakthrough Call: Where Everything Shifts
In 75 minutes, we'll create space for something different.
Not another place where you have to perform or prove yourself worthy of support. Not another strategy session.
On your breakthrough call:
We'll get crystal clear on what you really want — in LOVE, in partnership, in how you want to feel
You'll discover what's actually blocking you from having it — the pattern you can't see because you're living inside it
Walk away knowing if you're ready — for deeper transformation or if you need more time. Both are perfect. No pressure, just truth.
What makes this different from therapy or other coaching calls?
I don't just listen and nod. I have an innate gift of feeling your deep emotions. I read the patterns underneath your words—the ones your conscious mind can't access. The ones running 95% of your life without your permission.
And once you SEE the pattern? Everything shifts.
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Who LOVE Alchemy Is For
LOVE Alchemy is for women who've been showing up for everyone their whole life—and nobody's really there for them in return.
You might be:
Single and exhausted from relationships that never quite work
Divorced and terrified it will happen again
Married but feeling lonelier than when you were alone
Coming out of your second (or third) partnership wondering what's wrong with you
Successful at work but invisible in LOVE
Always giving support but never receiving it
Resentful from overgiving without appreciation
Running a business, a household, or both—with no boundaries or energy left for yourself
The person everyone leans on, but you have no one to lean on
Feeling like you're on your own deserted island without a boat to escape
The common thread isn't who you are with, or your profession. It's the subconscious pattern.
You give everything but can't receive back. You're devoted, capable, exhausted.
And deep down? You're wondering if you'll ever feel truly seen, heard and LOVED—not for what you do, but for who you are.
That's where LOVE Alchemy begins.
Why LOVE? Why Now?
Because you didn't come into this life to spend it feeling unworthy, unappreciated or unloved.
You didn't invest in therapy, or read all the books just to keep performing in relationships that eventually end.
You know there's a version of you who is deeply loved. Wildly desired. Fully seen. Completely safe to be soft and adored.
She's not someone you have to become.
She's who you are when you stop performing for your worth.
And LOVE? LOVE is the fastest path back to her.
Not because romance fixes everything. But because nothing will make you confront your worth faster than trying to let someone LOVE you when you don't believe you deserve it just for existing.
The women I work with are looking for permission to stop being so perfect all the time.
LOVE is just the doorway.
Meet Akasia — The LOVE Alchemist For Women Who Give More Than They Receive
I understand you at a cellular level.
Not because I studied your pattern. Because I lived it to its catastrophic conclusion.
The overgiving. The performing. The belief that if I was perfect or I just did more, I'd finally deserve the LOVE I desired.
In 2012, my entire world flipped upside down.
In 90 days, I lost my 13-year marriage to a "newly drug-addicted" husband and best friend, my award-winning career producing for A-list celebrities and Fortune 500 companies, and my physical mobility in a devastating car accident.
Three more accidents followed. Financial ruin. Complete life dismantling.
This wasn't random. It was inevitable.
Driven by external achievement without internal worth. Giving endlessly without receiving. Performing perfectly while feeling invisible inside. The constant hamster wheel going nowhere fast.
That was my operating system. And it finally broke me.
I was living inside an invisible cage that I didn't know was there. And you don't have to.
When traditional approaches couldn't heal my body or heart, I discovered something profound: the very patterns that drive external success are exactly what block deep, intimate LOVE.
So I did the deep work. I dedicated my life to heal my heart no matter what it took. I created solutions where none existed.
Combining subconscious reprogramming, nervous system rewiring, and energy healing into what became Love Alchemy—an approach that transforms LOVE and unworthiness patterns at their roots.
I am living proof that you can break free.
From earning LOVE to receiving it effortlessly. From living in a cage of my own making to remarkable inner freedom and magnetic attraction to the things I desire.
My private coaching works with the parts of you conventional therapy can't reach.
The subconscious programming from before age 7. The nervous system patterns locked in by trauma. The heart that learned to close a little more each time it got hurt instead of open.
From devastation to sovereignty, my journey taught me this: Our greatest pain becomes our greatest gift (and often purpose)- if we're willing to dive deep and rebuild based on worth instead of performance.
And that's precisely the alchemy I guide my clients through.
The shift from chasing and earning LOVE to receiving it just for being you. From proving your worth to embodying it. From exhausted to radiantly magnetic.
Not because you became someone new. Because you remembered who you always were... LOVE.
What LOVE Alchemy Creates
Sarah came to me stuck in a pattern of loving emotionally unavailable men. After 7 years of the same dynamic across 3 relationships, her exact words were: "I am nothing without him."
Through LOVE Alchemy's combination of reparenting work, nervous system regulation, and forgiveness tools, she shifted from self-dismissal to self-sovereignty.
She went from anxious, self-compromising, and desperate for connection to soft, boundaried, and magnetically ready for a relationship that honors her worth.
Most importantly, she stopped abandoning herself. The core pattern shifted because we rewired her nervous system's threat response to emotional intimacy, replacing the subconscious equation of "vulnerability = danger" with "vulnerability = connection."
Within weeks, she was responding differently to the same triggers that previously sent her into anxious attachment.
In her words: "I feel such deep appreciation for myself now. I don't need someone else to validate my worth anymore."
This transformation isn't just possible—it's INEVITABLE when you stop trying to earn LOVE and start allowing yourself to receive it.
LOVE Alchemy doesn't just heal your LOVE wounds. It rewires your nervous system so you can finally receive the LOVE you've been earning your whole life but never allowing yourself to actually have.
Ready to experience this transformation yourself?
LOVE BREAKTHROUGHS
These aren't just words—these are real people who broke through their LOVE blocks and rewired their ability to receive.
I've been to therapy for years. Pastors, counselors, you name it. But I never said what came out in my first session with Akasia.
For 30+ years, I kept it all inside. The anger. The betrayal. The belief that I wasn't worthy of being loved the way I needed. All of it stuck in my back like a basketball of tangled knots. I thought I was 'letting it go' by not dwelling on it.
Akasia showed me: you can't let go of what you never expressed. And you can't receive love when your heart is locked shut.
So I finally said it. All of it. The things I was ashamed to admit I felt. The ways I'd been betrayed.
And when I was done? That weight in my back lifted. My neck released. I could BREATHE. My heart cracked open for the first time in decades.
But here's what shocked me most: I walked away feeling OPEN. Not happy, not relieved—just open. Like I could finally receive love without performing for it first.
I haven't felt open in decades. I finally know I'm worthy of being loved—not for what I do, but for who I am.
One session. That's all it took to start dropping 30 years of unworthiness.
CC, New York, NY
I've been running on a belief my entire life: 'I have to earn my worth through exhaustion or I don't deserve love.' I watched my mum do it. I thought proving my worth was the only way to be loved.
Then Akasia asked me one question that changed everything. That one realization unlocked everything. I don't have to earn love through sacrifice. I don't have to judge my boyfriend for being at ease. I don't have to push and control and perform to deserve connection.
Now? I receive love without exhausting myself first. And the wildest part? The right people show up, opportunities flow, and I finally feel worthy of it all.
The way I was withholding love from myself was the way I was showing up everywhere. Now I get to receive it fully.
Anne, London, England
I kept attracting men who were so into me at first... then vanished. The hot-and-cold cycle was exhausting. I thought maybe I just needed to date more, be more patient, figure out the 'right' type.
After working with Akasia, everything shifted. Not because I changed my dating strategy—because something deeper clicked into place.
I went on a date with someone who was... consistent. And I didn't find it boring. I found it magnetic. That's when I knew something fundamental had shifted.
I'm now in the healthiest relationship of my life. With a man who shows up. Consistently. Without me having to chase it.
Misty, Austin, MI
Even after years of therapy and self-help books, I was stuck… until Akasia helped me move from unworthiness and fear into deep self-love and the capacity to receive.
Akasia guided me through one of the most emotional and uncertain chapters of my life with so much grace and power. Her intuitive tools, grounding presence, and empowering guidance reminded me I was worthy of love—not because of what I did, but simply because I exist.
Through our Love Alchemy work, I stopped performing for love and started receiving it. I reconnected to my inherent worth, and began attracting the life and relationships I once thought were out of reach. She's the real deal—calm, compassionate, and deeply transformative.
Karla, Playa Del Carmen, MX
The Real Questions You're Not Asking Out Loud
Because your nervous system learned before age 7 that LOVE isn't safe. So it's been protecting you by pushing away what you actually want.
Your subconscious is running patterns you absorbed as a child—patterns that attract emotionally unavailable partners or sabotage when someone gets too close. The unconscious mind runs the show 95% of the time, no matter what your conscious mind says.
You aren't broken. There's nothing wrong with you.
You just need to rewire those patterns at the root—nervous system, subconscious, heart level. Like updating your phone's operating system, but for your capacity to receive LOVE.
That's what Love Alchemy does. We don't just talk about it. We dissolve it where it was created.
Because somewhere along the way, you learned that your worth is tied to your usefulness.
Maybe you watched your mother do it. Maybe you learned that being "good" meant being helpful. Maybe love only came when you earned it through service.
So now? Your nervous system believes: If I stop giving, I'll stop mattering. If I prioritize myself, I'll lose LOVE.
You're not selfish. You're terrified.
Through LOVE Alchemy, we disconnect that neurological link between service and safety. We rewire the part of your nervous system that equates self-care with abandonment.
The shift is profound: You move from anxious achievement to confident presence. From earning LOVE to receiving it. From believing you're only worthy when you're useful to knowing you're worthy simply because you exist.
And here's what happens next: The people who truly love you? They don't want your exhaustion. They want you.
Because you've been performing your entire relationship. And you can't perform your way into intimacy.
You curated the perfect life—the partner, the home, the lifestyle. But underneath? You're terrified someone will discover the real you isn't actually lovable.
So you keep giving. Keep adjusting. Keep being what you think they need you to be. And every day you do that, you move further from the LOVE you're dying for.
Here's the truth: You're looking outside yourself for proof that you're enough. At your partner. At your achievements. At everything except the woman who's been waiting inside this whole time.
Through LOVE Alchemy, we awaken the part of you that's always been worthy—before the achievements, the accolades, the perfect performance. She's been waiting to lead your entire life.
And when she does? Your marriage transforms. Not because your partner changes. Because you finally let yourself be seen. Without the armor. Without the performance.
That's when real intimacy begins.
Because you built it all to prove you were worthy. And proving never ends.
You thought the next milestone would make you feel enough. The promotion. The house. The relationship. The income level. But every time you got there, the emptiness stayed.
Here's why: Achievement without embodied self-LOVE is just beautiful imprisonment.
You're still performing. Still earning your right to exist. Still waiting for external validation to fill the void inside.
Through Love Alchemy, you finally come home to yourself. To the part of you that's always been worthy—before the achievements, the accolades, the perfect life you built to feel safe.
When you lead from that place of deep, unshakeable worth? Everything shifts. Your relationships. Your business. Your capacity to actually feel your life instead of just accomplishing it.
The success stops being a cage. It becomes evidence of what you're capable of—not proof that you deserve to exist.
Your nervous system is protecting you from a pain it remembers—even if your mind forgot.
At some point, being seen meant danger. Being vulnerable meant getting hurt. So your body learned: closeness = threat. And now? The moment someone gets too close, your nervous system hits the eject button before you even realize what's happening.
You're not broken. You're wired for survival.
Through LOVE Alchemy's somatic techniques, we guide your body to recognize that safety and connection can coexist. That being seen doesn't mean being destroyed. That you can let someone in without losing yourself.
This single shift can eliminate self-sabotage patterns. Not just in relationships—everywhere.
Because when your nervous system finally exhales, everything changes.
Because achievement has rules. LOVE doesn't.
You can control outcomes in business. Set goals. Hit targets. Prove your worth through results. Your nervous system feels safe there because you're in the driver's seat.
But LOVE? LOVE asks you to surrender. To be seen without the armor. To receive without earning it first. And that terrifies the part of you that learned worth = performance.
You've been taught to do more. Not receive differently.
With LOVE Alchemy, we release the hidden blocks in your body that equate receiving with danger. We rewire your nervous system so holding LOVE feels as natural as closing a deal.
And here's the wild part: When you learn to receive LOVE, your leadership transforms too. Because you stop leading from depletion and start leading from overflow.
Imagine This
You wake up beside someone who sees all of you.
Your ambition and your softness. Your power and your vulnerability. Your sharp edges and your tender heart.
And they don't LOVE you despite those contradictions. They LOVE you because of them.
You're not performing anymore. Not editing yourself. Not shrinking to fit into someone else's comfort zone.
You're just... you. Fully expressed. Wildly alive. Completely safe.
And it feels so natural you can barely remember what all that striving was for.
That's not fantasy. That's what happens when you stop trying to earn LOVE and start receiving it.
When your nervous system finally believes: I am safe to be seen. I am safe to be soft. I am safe to take up space.
This is the work. And it changes everything.
Before coaching with Akasia, I was struggling with heartbreak and lack of confidence.
She helped me work through traumas with love, teaching me to forgive myself and others in order to release and heal. Her loving energy, exceptional knowledge, and life experience bridged me to a more healed state.
Today, I feel myself owning the new woman I'm becoming and having an easier time accepting what is. I feel deep appreciation for myself and my sovereignty.
She made me realize my past doesn't define me and gave me tools to avoid repeating disappointing patterns.
Kayleigh, Maui, HI
Words can't do justice to the transformation Akasia sparked in me.
Through her coaching, I reclaimed my self-worth and aligned my actions. I quit smoking, started eating better, exercising, and developed a daily practice of meditation, journaling, and affirmations.
Akasia's real-world tools and intuitive guidance brought subconscious blocks to light and helped me kickstart deep healing. I even discovered my life purpose and experienced a full paradigm shift.
Her constant kindness made me feel safe, never judged. With her support, I now feel confident and empowered to share my gifts and make an impact in the world.
She's making an impact and changing the world, one heart at a time.
Izzy, Culver City, CA
After working with her I feel not only like a different person, but like I've stepped more into my own.
When I came to Akasia I felt incredibly stuck, lacking the ability to fully engage with life and keep things moving forward—especially in my relationships and in how I was showing up in love.
With her guidance, I was able to gain new insights and discoveries into my life, behavior, and the old patterns keeping me small. She helped me examine things from a higher perspective and gave me lifelong tools that will continue to shift me toward my desired path.
It was absolutely a life-changing experience that has left me confidently inspired, but more importantly, knowing and capable.
Shane, Hollywood, CA
What Happens After This Call?
Maybe you get the clarity you need and apply it yourself. That's perfect.
Or maybe you realize you're ready for the kind of deep transformation that rewires everything. The kind that doesn't just shift your LOVE life but cracks you open to a completely different way of being in the world.
If that's true, and if we're aligned, we'll talk about what's possible.
My private coaching represents an investment in your complete transformation. Women who work with me find it returns exponential value across every area—career, relationships, and most importantly, your relationship with yourself.
The ripple effect is wild. You don't just change your LOVE life. You change everything.
I work with a limited number of private clients each quarter because this level of transformation demands my full presence, and I refuse to dilute it. Not gatekeeping. Just honoring the work.
If there's alignment after our call, I'll share program options tailored to your specific journey and transformation goals.
No pressure. No pitch. Just what's actually possible for you.
But first, this call is about you.
More Love, Less Performing
I was blown away by the realization of how childhood events were still shaping my life. I never thought I'd share something so personal, but your approach made me feel safe.
It was an honor to have you guide my first experience with coaching. Your expertise and encouraging personality helped me open up and focus on underlying issues that interfered with my goals. You helped me reach levels of understanding that were deep and revealing that I never expected to have.
The tools you gave me were powerful, practical, and easy to use. I'm truly grateful for the growth and confidence I've experienced because of your caring and supportive coaching!
Susan, Ventura, CA
For the first time in a long time, I felt worthy of LOVE—not because I earned it, but because I exist.
I was deeply moved by Akasia's presence and coaching. Her calm, safe, and inviting energy made it easy to open up. Her guided breathwork and sound journey helped me release years of performing and proving—years of believing I had to earn my right to be loved.
I felt a deep emotional shift—lighter, freer, and finally able to receive the LOVE I've been chasing my whole life.
Lori, Redondo Beach, CA
She has a directness in her questions and approach that gets straight to the heart of the matter, allowing healing to take place on a cellular level.
The moment I met Akasia, I was drawn to her grounded, yet magical energy. She's so loving and supportive and made me feel safe. She helped me extract my truth from hidden places within, so that I'm now able to shift my sense of unworthiness into confidence and strength.
I felt immediate, lasting results and this effect has carried through this past year. This changed me profoundly.
Erin, Portland, OR
The Transformation Blueprint
Key Patterns Our Clients Shifted:
From performing for LOVE through exhaustion → to receiving it effortlessly through magnetic presence
From "I have to earn my worth" → to "I'm worthy simply because I exist"
From nervous system panic when someone gets close → to embodied safety that allows deep intimacy
From sabotaging every relationship when it gets real → to staying present through vulnerability without running
Ready for your own breakthrough?
The Cost of Waiting
Every day you wait costs you something irreplaceable: time you could be fully alive.
What's another year of this worth to you?
Another year of being chosen for what you do instead of who you are.
Another year of sabotaging relationships the moment they get good because your nervous system mistakes connection for danger—a biochemical response your conscious mind can't override.
Another year of building empires while your heart quietly starves.
Another year of wondering if you're just too damaged, too intense, too much to ever be truly loved.
You're not.
But the patterns keeping you stuck? They don't dissolve on their own. They require deep, subconscious work that most people aren't willing to do.
The difference between struggling for years versus transformation in months isn't effort—it's working at the correct level of the pattern. This isn't conventional therapy or coaching. It's a complete reprogramming of your relationship operating system.
Your nervous system holds trauma patterns therapy can't reach. Your subconscious runs programs from before age 7 that no amount of affirmations will shift.
Within weeks, my clients typically experience a complete shift in how they show up in relationships. Not because they tried harder. Because we rewired the neurological patterns preventing reception.
You're not most people.
You're the woman who's already done the hard things. Who's already proven she can transform when she commits.
The question isn't whether you're capable.
It's whether you're ready.
You Don't Have To Carry This Alone Anymore
Your exhaustion isn't weakness.
It's your soul begging you to remember — you were never meant to force your way through LOVE.
This call is your initiation back to yourself.
To being chosen without performing. To feeling desired without perfecting. To receiving LOVE just for being the radiant, imperfect, wildly sensual, alive woman you actually are!
This isn't just a call.
It's a homecoming.
This work is for women committed to profound transformation, willing to invest in themselves at a level that reflects the value of what they'll receive.
If you're still reading, you already know you're one of them.
Akasia's Certifications & Trainings
Beyond Theory: Applied Transformation
1000+ hours of systematic nervous system rewiring and pattern transformation following my own hearts awakening (2012)—the living laboratory where LOVE Alchemy was developed and proven before being taught to clients.
Psychological Foundations: BA Psychology, International Coaching Mastery (Alyssa Nobriga), Coach Apprentice & Leadership (Kute Blackson), Life Coach (LPI)
Energy & Somatic: Reiki Master, Advanced Akashic Records, Sound Healing & Breathwork
This integration addresses patterns at all levels where conventional approaches fail—they work at the mind level (therapy) or behavioral, but skip the unconscious mind and the body's nervous system where old trauma actually lives.
The mastery method I use works all levels to get to the root cause, so clients stop projecting it onto every area of their life and experience breakthroughs in every session, not years.
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